girl help (again)

Cougar_Swimmer

Cougar_Swimmer

RAWR!!!!!!
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For the people who have read/helped me on my other "girl help" thread, this one involes a totally different girl, but has many of the same characteristics as the last one.

O.K. here goes:
1. Every time she sees me in the hall, she says "hi" loud and clear in front of everybody else.
2. In the morning, before school starts, she always ends up standing right next to me at some point.
3. she often hugs me for no apparent reason (though most of my friends that are girls do the exact same thing every day)
4. Very Flirtatious (especially with me)
5. she broke up with her old boyfriend about two months ago, and hasn't had one since.

Please help.
 
I dont know it may just be her personality. How often do you hang out with her? Do you see her after school at all?
 
I come over and talk to a lot of people. But I'm not flirting with all of them. <_<
 
well, number one, its constantly, like about 4-5 times in between each class period, the entire time at lunch break, and almost all the time during class. and nuber two,i can't really describe the way it's flirtatious, it just is
 
Well, the species of girls is not yet figured out perfectly. We have scientists everywhere!

*PokeLen breakes TV with stupid commercial on*

Well, just ask her if she likes you. I am totally serious. I have asked girls if they like me. If the say yes, I say if I like them back or not. If you are too scared to do this, ask a friend to ask. I started out with the friend thing, but then I got used to it and ask by myself.

(P.S. I have been liked by many girls, it get's on my nerves so much!)
 
well, i'm not sure at the moment if it's just her personality or if she truly does like me, and i don't want to ruin our friendship by asking her if she likes me or not. it's a long story

EDIT:yes amt i do like her
 
Soooo, you thouhg a girl liked you, and now you have a hunch another one does?
-_-

You are very poular.

I expect you are looking for two types of people who could help you:

A boy who has been in the same situation and understands the complex workings of the female mind.

A girl. - AMT is covering this job.


Unfortunately I have no idea how any living being on the planet could attempt to understand the complicated workings of female minds (this is coming from a guy with three sisters) The best advice I could give you would be ask her or tell her to go away if you don't like her. Simple. :/

Scientists worldwide are examining the unusual species and trying to find logical answers for the many mysteries of life. When one finds the answer I'll come and tell you. :)
 
Fire Pokemon Master said:
Soooo, you thouhg a girl liked you, and now you have a hunch another one does?
-_-

You are very poular.

I expect you are looking for two types of people who could help you:

A boy who has been in the same situation and understands the complex workings of the female mind.

A girl. - AMT is covering this job.


Unfortunately I have no idea how any living being on the planet could attempt to understand the complicated workings of female minds (this is coming from a guy with three sisters) The best advice I could give you would be ask her or tell her to go away if you don't like her. Simple. :/

Scientists worldwide are examining the unusual species and trying to find logical answers for the many mysteries of life. When one finds the answer I'll come and tell you. :)
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ROFL, Make sure you tell me too! I have Girl trouble too but have no guts too make a Thread about It. (Btw, I totally agree about what FPM said)
 
Okay okay okay, the female mind is hard to solve, it is mind-boggling but it is solvable. Jewellery really gets them happy. Urm, they like perfumes, shoes, that kind of rubbish you wouldn't normally buy for yourself.

I have a gf and she loves that kind of stuff, but yeah, they also have a language that not many guys can understand: mall talk.
 
Yeah I once Saw This Group Of High School Girls And They Were Talking Like:

"Did You Know That.."

"I Know, *Giggles Like A Maniac*"

WeIrD!
 
Okay man, listen. This girl, she's your friend, right? What's the problem then with asking her how she feels? What do you have to lose? Nothing. This girl is your friend. If you ask her if she likes you as more than friends and she says yes, congratulations, you just scored. However, it is entirely possible she will either say no, and you're no worse off since you're still friends, or she'll say yes, but not want to take things further because you're "too good of friends" (which is a complete horse hockey reason but deal with it).

Of course from what you posted no one can be sure how flirty this girl is. You say she hugs you a lot but you also said your other lady friends also hug you so you can't really take this special girl's hugs as being flirtatious.

But really, you don't have anything to lose. Stop worrying about it and ask. Just be totally cool about it. It doesn't have to be in front of your entire circle of friends, but if you get her alone and start looking goofy, that ain't gonna look good. So just ease into it. Talk to her as you normally would.

Even if she says no, she'll probably apologize to you for making you think she did. And like I've said many times over at the liking Pokemon thread, if this girl, after you ask if she likes you, doesn't still want to be your friend if she doesn't return your feelings, was not really your friend in the first place and you're better off with your real buddies.
 
Sam von Noobenschtein said:
Okay okay okay, the female mind is hard to solve, it is mind-boggling but it is solvable. Jewellery really gets them happy. Urm, they like perfumes, shoes, that kind of rubbish you wouldn't normally buy for yourself.

I have a gf and she loves that kind of stuff, but yeah, they also have a language that not many guys can understand: mall talk.
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she does all sorts of girly flirty things like that hidden smile sort of thing.

and contrary to sam's statement, she's not the girly-girl type, she likes very odd things, like one time she had a pouch in her backpack full of tiny 1x1 mirrors. (she put her backpack down and opened the pocket and showed them to us)

and she recently has been getting this notebook paper with pictures/designs on it ie:kitten, dog.
 
Okay so she likes talking to you she makes physical contact a lot and like to be around you.

She likes you as a friend and maybe she likes you more but she can't decide if she likes your or not. She also might be getting over her old bofriend still.

Here is what you do. You said you like her so, be the first one to say hi it will show you are social and she will like that. When she hugs you hug back make sure she nows you are returning her affection. Last don't wait for her to talk to you go over and talk to her sometimes.

If you do these thing and will be showing her you like her without telling her and things should come into place from there.

P.S. No, I'm not a girl but I'm one of the few how understand them.
 
Sam von Noobenschtein said:
Okay okay okay, the female mind is hard to solve, it is mind-boggling but it is solvable. Jewellery really gets them happy. Urm, they like perfumes, shoes, that kind of rubbish you wouldn't normally buy for yourself.

I have a gf and she loves that kind of stuff, but yeah, they also have a language that not many guys can understand: mall talk.
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They also like Chocolate...or any sort of Romantic Candy. This is coming from knowledge from my girlfriend. She loves Chocolate. One time we went to Office Depot (don't ask why) and you know there is candy on the shelves....so I got myself Reeces Pieces and I gave her a few and she really liked them, though she never tasted them. But the best thing to really get her is, ermm, like, uhh, fancy Chocolate, whatever you call it or what not...?
 
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