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Purpose of this:
So i'm sure many of us have had heartache story or two, close calls, and breakups. What I thought would be a good idea is to discuss how we've learned to move past that, suggestions, advice, etc. I do not believe I've seen a thread for this (though have seen a breakup song thread), so I thought It'd be a good idea to make a relatively general thread for this.
How did you guys get over your first love? What did you guys do to ease the pain and make it easier? Any advice for a possible first time break up? Second? end of first serious relationship? Also, I hope that this thread ends up helping other people going through heartache too.
My story/what gave me the idea:
Things happened to the man and there's somewhat of a chance it's going to cause us splitting up after a bit shy of four and a half happy, and mostly peaceful years. He was the perfect prince for me. He was loving, kind, a good cook, understanding, he understood female issues, liked playing games and enjoyed anime and we had similar tastes in food, shows, and music all around. He had an adorable side that he only showed me, mainly to get me to smile. He was nerdy, and he has sage fright and give me little personal shows of him singing, just for me. Many times just wanted nothing more than to hold me as I fell asleep. He always tried to find new things for us to do together.
We were, and still are technically engaged, but we postponed it because of an immense amount of pressure and and other things. We have a time frame set to get married and such, planning on having kids with the names already picked out, we already decided on how we were going to raise them and everything. Now all that might end due to things.
He was, and still is my first love, and means more to me than anything. I've had feelings for others, but those were just crushes and I knew it. He's also the first person I've ever been with (in a relationship with).
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Purpose of this:
So i'm sure many of us have had heartache story or two, close calls, and breakups. What I thought would be a good idea is to discuss how we've learned to move past that, suggestions, advice, etc. I do not believe I've seen a thread for this (though have seen a breakup song thread), so I thought It'd be a good idea to make a relatively general thread for this.
How did you guys get over your first love? What did you guys do to ease the pain and make it easier? Any advice for a possible first time break up? Second? end of first serious relationship? Also, I hope that this thread ends up helping other people going through heartache too.
My story/what gave me the idea:
Things happened to the man and there's somewhat of a chance it's going to cause us splitting up after a bit shy of four and a half happy, and mostly peaceful years. He was the perfect prince for me. He was loving, kind, a good cook, understanding, he understood female issues, liked playing games and enjoyed anime and we had similar tastes in food, shows, and music all around. He had an adorable side that he only showed me, mainly to get me to smile. He was nerdy, and he has sage fright and give me little personal shows of him singing, just for me. Many times just wanted nothing more than to hold me as I fell asleep. He always tried to find new things for us to do together.
We were, and still are technically engaged, but we postponed it because of an immense amount of pressure and and other things. We have a time frame set to get married and such, planning on having kids with the names already picked out, we already decided on how we were going to raise them and everything. Now all that might end due to things.
He was, and still is my first love, and means more to me than anything. I've had feelings for others, but those were just crushes and I knew it. He's also the first person I've ever been with (in a relationship with).