Well, *you* wouldn't have to travel all the way to Haarlem.
There's one in Gronigen. The
Benelux POP website has all the league locations, so hopefully that one or another is close by to you!
There's just none that are actually in Amsterdam for me, which is kind of sad.
My partner is kind of ambivalent about the TCG. I think he sees it as a waste of money. He came with me to a prerelease in the States, but refused to play since he wanted to just stay with me the whole time. I've played with him a few times; I actually have a couple decks made with Dutch cards from Base/Jungle, as well as a couple totally not competitive BW-on decks. I wish I could get him more into it, but, well, it's not that big of a deal, I guess.
At least I've gotten him back into the video games.
He had never played past 1st gen before, and that was ages ago, but I got him playing Heart Gold and now White. I really hope he'll unbend enough to get Y with me when I get X so we can play together since I think it would be super fun.